Re nipplegate:I was on the abuse team a couple of years back. I know some people who are currently members of the abuse team. What I will say is that in situations like this, you only ever hear one side of the story, because the people at LJA can't discuss it because they're bound by confidentiality issues. I could go into a lot more detail, but most people are sick to death of the whole thing, so I won't.
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