Re Gragarius, I know, I need to get around to trying it. I need to get around to trying many things, haven't even upgraded WP yet on any of my sites.

Re Facebook, I refer the lady to a different article by doctorvee that I linked to when he wrote it, I'm not hrefing it, because the url says it all:
http://doctorvee.co.uk/2006/09/09/the-utter-cretins-guide-to-privacy-on-facebook/
This one isn't bad either:
http://doctorvee.co.uk/2006/09/06/facebook-fuss-has-an-easy-solution/

I'll admit that they made a 6A style mess up of the announcement, but the feature itself? Having only just signed up, it's what makes the site useful, Jo uploads a picture, Christy comments on it, I know both things easily so can go join in the conversation, all through the feeds. I like. But then, I'm weird.